A child custody dispute is one of the most stressful and overwhelming experiences a parent could ever face. In Rhode Island, the court determines custody and visitation based on the “best interest of the child” standard. Understanding the court system requires careful preparation and a strategic approach.
Some common custody mistakes
Custody battles can quickly get emotional, leading parents to make critical errors without realizing it. To protect your parental rights and your child’s well-being, avoid these common mistakes, including:
- Bad-mouthing the other parent: Speaking negatively about an ex partner in front of the children or where they can overhear could be considered as parental alienation by the court.
- Oversharing on social media: Posting crucial updates, venting or sharing details about custody battles is a major misstep that could adversely affect your court standing.
- Introducing a new partner immediately: Moving a significant other into the home or introducing them to children too early could cause emotional instability and complicate court proceedings.
- Violating court orders: Withholding visitation or failing to follow existing court schedules shows an inability to adhere to court rules and could harm the case.
- Failing to document everything: Keeping a detailed log of missed visitation exchanges, late arrivals and child related expenses could help establish clear evidence in court.
Under Rhode Island law, legal custody and physical custody are evaluated separately. Legal custody includes decision making power over medical, educational and religious decisions and physical custody is where the child resides. Showing stability, willingness to co-parent and an organized life strengthens your position for both.
Protecting your parental rights
Family court procedures can vary based on individual circumstances. If you feel stuck or unsure about your custody situation, an experienced family law attorney can help you understand your options and avoid the missteps that most often complicate these cases.
