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How can divorce affect your children in Rhode Island?

On Behalf of | Sep 9, 2022 | Child Custody & Support

Divorce is a difficult process for couples, but it can be especially tough on children. There are many ways that divorce can affect your children, both in the short- and long-term.

It causes feelings of confusion and uncertainty

When you divorce, your children’s world is turned upside down. They might not understand why you’re splitting up, and they may feel confused, scared and angry. On top of that, they might worry about how the divorce will change their own lives. For instance, will they have to move to a new house or change schools?

It can lead to psychological or behavioral problems

The stress of divorce can cause your children to act out in destructive or harmful ways. They might start misbehaving at school, acting out against their siblings or becoming withdrawn and depressed. In some cases, this can even lead to substance abuse. Also, the children may start to resent one another if they think that their parents are taking sides and even experience anxiety if they feel caught in the middle of their parents’ conflict.

The long-term effects

Divorce can still have a lasting effect on your children well into adulthood. For instance, they might have a harder time forming intimate relationships or they may struggle with trust issues, especially if they see you or your ex-spouse going through a lot of drama concerning child custody and support. This can lead to social and emotional problems down the road. They might also carry some resentment towards you or your ex-spouse. Additionally, as adults, they may have a harder time achieving financial stability. This is especially true if they grew up in a single-parent household.

Divorce can also have a negative effect on your children’s future relationships. They might have trouble trusting people or forming close attachments, and they may be more likely to get divorced someday.

No matter the circumstances of your divorce, it’s important to remember that your children are going through a lot of changes and they need your support. Be there for them, listen to them and help them through this tough time. With a little love and patience, they’ll eventually adjust to the new situation and grow into happy, healthy adults.

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