Divorce can affect anyone in Rhode Island, but it’s particularly difficult on children. However, parents can help their kids cope; these are some steps that may make divorce easier for children.
Stay actively involved in their life
Regardless of the situation in your divorce, you can help your child cope by actively staying in their life. Taking the time to be there for them and having quality time together shows them how important they are to you. Planning fun activities or even just talking and spending quality time at home can make all the difference in the world.
Work with your spouse to co-parent
Even though you and your spouse are ending your marriage, you’re still parents. No matter the state of your relationship, it’s crucial to put your differences aside for the sake of your child and co-parent. When you work together to raise your child, it can help them to better cope throughout the divorce.
Avoid badmouthing your spouse
Children can become traumatized during a divorce when one parent badmouths the other. Remember that the issues between you and your spouse have nothing to do with your child. Avoid speaking negatively about your spouse in front of them and keep things as civil as possible.
Tell them the truth
You don’t have to give every little detail, but being honest with your child is best when you divorce. Explain that even though you’ll no longer be married, you’ll both always be there for them. Reassure your child that you both love them very much and will always be a family.
Divorce can take a big toll on a child. The right communication and actions can make things easier as the family dynamic changes.
